Nearly everyone has encountered individuals who hide behind the comfort zone of expertise. Not only is this fatiguing to others, it is professionally constraining to that individual. Thankfully these damaging behaviors can be defeated by simply being transparent, honest, and sincere as these permit an individual to lead others courageously and without fear.
Make no mistake, facing professional weaknesses (such as tardiness, long response time, lack of concern, information stinginess, rude non-verbal communication, etc.) is an emotionally daunting yet brave task and will make individuals temporarily vulnerable. The rewards, however, far outweigh the disadvantages! Below is a list of positive returns an individual should see after acknowledging and correcting one’s professional weaknesses.
Please note that changes do take time, so persistence is a must! Also, be patient with others who are working to become better. To see the advantage points of being transparent, honest, and sincere, action is needed and there's no better time like the present to begin making positive changes in the work environment and become a professional powerhouse!
Can you identify at least two professional weaknesses that need your attention?
Is compassion an action or an emotion? Some religions consider compassion an emotion, like feeling empathy for another person. In modern psychology, compassion is regarded as an action aimed at ridding others of their troubles or consoling them in their suffering (Chowdhury, 2019). Regardless of these two differing positions, compassion is not a give or take scenario. People who show compassion do not expect to receive the same or get something in return. Compassion is simply kindness in action!
Psychologists have argued that compassionate people in the workplace bridge large gaps and reap positive benefits! For instance, leaders who exhibit compassion build positive relationships that encourage others to contribute to a common goal. Compassion based organizations have proven they can provide a wider perception of others, encouraging co-workers to accept individuals for who they are. Furthermore, recent research findings recognize compassion as an essential aspect of having a beneficial and productive workplace while creating more desired results (Chowdhury, 2019). Leaders tend to see a positive change in themselves and others when compassion is incorporated into the organizational approach as this allows for more openness and honesty between colleagues.
In addition, people who show compassion to others often experience compassion satisfaction. This is a natural positive outcome and can be defined as the contentment we receive from showing others compassion. That’s just a brief explanation so let’s take it a step further. We can be more attentive at work knowing that others care about us and we care about them, ultimately providing meaningful work relationships that create a healthy work environment for everyone (Chowdhury, 2019). Compassion satisfaction is experienced when we see those we had compassion on succeed. Knowing that you helped someone through a downtime is a reminder of how significant you can be in someone else’s life!
Interestingly enough, compassion satisfaction even has a scientific explanation! It creates an organic feeling of fulfillment from the natural release of dopamine when we do something positive for another individual. Dopamine plays a major role in the motivational component of reward-motivated behavior. It is what makes us feel good about doing the right thing when no one is watching or helping someone in need when we receive nothing in return.
A final important aspect of this compassion at work concept is to practice self-compassion. Until we are kind to ourselves, we will never understand the importance of showing others kindness (Chowdhury, 2019). Remembering to be true to positive work ethics and proving yourself worthy of your job is having self-compassion. Working through hard times instead of giving up is practicing self-compassion. Posting encouraging sticky notes in your work area is showing kindness and being positive to yourself! This may sound funny to some; nonetheless, positive self-talk is a great way to keep you strong and healthy!
I hope you can consider compassion to be a changing element in your work environment and put it into practice with those around you! Be a paradigm with compassion in action!
Whatever your professional role may be, you can choose to be a leader by setting the compassionate example! Take notice when someone is stressed, frustrated, or hurting, and let him or her know you care. Leave a "pick you up" note on someone’s car or desk remembering that a few words of encouragement can go a long way! Actively listen to your coworkers without judgment knowing that you don’t always have to provide an answer; just an open ear will do! Learn how to state your opinion without putting someone down. Be understanding with the occasional late arrival as some things really are out of an individual’s control. Lastly, do not forget to be kind to yourself!
Chowdhury, M. R. (2019). Compassion at Work: Using Compassionate Leadership in the Workplace. Retrieved from https://positivepsychologyprogram.com/compassion-at-work-leadership/
Have you struggled to get employees engaged at work? Increased employee engagement has proven to be helpful with both work performance and organizational success. When someone is engaged at work, it shows in their workmanship, productivity, and communication. Engaged employees are more responsive as opposed to reactive. They are ready and willing to work individually yet with the team! Engaged employees will go over and beyond to do a great job as opposed to just meeting the minimum requirements. An engaged team will get your workplace running smoother and being more productive in no time!
Here are a few ways to increase employee engagement in your workplace!
Remember to be patient as you pursue this journey. Employee engagement doesn't happen overnight and is something you constantly have to strive for! The connection and enthusiasm employees have with their managers and co-workers will grow over time with these few tips. As always, I hope you find this helpful and would love to hear from you with questions or comments!
Excellent leaders do not withhold information! Some people are limited by their own fear of promoting others under their management to a position above them. This is a debilitating fear that often ends in a self-fulfilled prophecy. Generously sharing knowledge and processes to those under one's management separates a good leader from an excellent leader.
Excellent leaders make those under their management excellent leaders! That's right, leaders don't create a following, they create more leaders. This can be done by involving the team and creating ownership in decisions made. People are more interested in the outcome when ownership is incorporated. Asking subordinates questions will increase engagement and appreciating positive work results will keep employees committed.
Excellent leaders set up an effective communication system! Managers who are willing to take an excellent leadership approach will use various avenues of communication (i.e., face-to-face, phone calls, text messaging, email, etc.) to ensure that the exchange of ideas is clear and well-defined. If those under one's guidance are not receiving distinct instructions and feedback, their work will reflect the lack of excellent leadership and communication.
I hope you find these tips helpful and would love to hear from you with questions or comments!
Jessica Saxton is a researcher, writer, business marketer, and musician who recognizes the power of positivity, faith in God, and gratitude as an essential part of life. She holds a masters degree in professional counseling and is experienced in human resource development. She loves to help others grow through information sharing, networking, and simple encouraging words!